Values: The Importance of Walking the Talk
It is widely recognized that employees respond to people who value them and move away from those who decrease their self worth.
"The scarcest resource in the world today is leadership talent capable of continuously transforming organizations to win in tomorrow's world." Nel Tichy, The Leadership Engine
Over the last few years I have heard many variations of the following lament:
"Carl can be an overbearing and obnoxious character. We've tried on numerous occasions to reign in his offensive behavior but it just seems to fall on deaf ears. Otherwise, I must say he gets results and has brought in a number of big clients. He has some good contacts but the problem is that he doesn't listen to his people. It is "my way or the highway" and we have lost a couple of good people because of his attitude. He is known for generally creating animosity from those who report to him. Should we continue to work with this guy or simply let him go?"
This recurring leadership issue has caused me to write this month about the importance of conducting yourself and your business with integrity. Since what we tolerate has the tendency to grow, leadership ultimately predicts whether values are lived or simply espoused.
In the last few years most companies have recognized the importance of documenting their values. Some have gone to great lengths in detailing what would be ideal behavior but it is still the rare company who has leaders who actually walk the talk.
The quality of interactions between a manager and his/her staff is what drives the quality of the products and services. The number one success factor for any manager is their "relationships with subordinates". Studies continue to show that the most important reason executives derail in their careers is their insensitivity and inability to understand the perspectives of others. As Stephen Covey would say, "Good managers seek to understand rather than focusing on being understood."
Managers must recognize that their number one job function is to treat all employees with warmth, dignity and respect. As I have often said, "Everyone has the desire to be heard and have their opinions acknowledged. It is not necessary for leaders to agree or accommodate these positions, but rather it is essential to respectfully acknowledge and hear what is being said."
Many organizations seem to forget the connection between customers, employees, and financial results. The best companies are able to get extraordinary results because they lead with people-centered values. Clear values come first. Building trust comes second. A big misconception is that you create core values -- actually you discover them. You do not deduce them by looking at the external environment. You understand core values by looking inside - by discovering what is important to the organization and its people.
If a company has taken the time to outline its values, they probably consume five or six written pages. Take those pages and reduce them to four or five key elements that best define the culture you want to reinforce. Here are some ideas:
Mutual respect
Commitment
Cooperation
Listening
Promoting teamwork
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